Mush has claimed my foot. #ragdoll #kitty #meow
So I don’t ever post stuff like this, but I’ve been eating #paleo for about 3 weeks now, and working out maybe 2-3x a week (jogging, jump roping, light weights) and I’ve lost 2 inches in my waist and 1 in my hips. WHERE DID THIS TONE COME FROM?! And I get to eat bacon everyday?? Thrilled :)
I bought this little slab of #labradorite last night from Eyescream Jewelry at Death Guild last night. It flashes a beautiful fiery yellow with some earth tones and a hint of blue in the tiny dot at the top. Last night we had a very unexpected thunderstorm and it felt magical having this stone close to me during it. Labradorite is used metaphysically to help reflect negative energy and to heal.
If the first thing you tell people when you become friends is “oh all of my friends leave me because they can’t handle how busy or introverted I am”, then you are setting yourself up for failure.
Because if you say you’re busy when a friend is reaching out to you, but spend hours on Facebook posting and chatting in comments about casual things, you’re a liar. You’re not busy; you don’t want to take the time to talk to your friend, who is taking the time to talk to you.
And if you ignore them for weeks and come crawling back when they express enough anger, saying, “I’m sorry I was just busy! And I am so introverted and alone! Why are you mad? Are you on your period, dear? I’m sorry I can’t give you all the attention you want…” you’re forcing the blame on them, which isn’t just busy, it’s manipulation.
And if you publicly share your amazon wishlist (which almost every model has) and say you never buy things for yourself, you are asking for people to buy you things! It’s that simple! Even if you’re not wording it that way… I didn’t even know what one of those was until you told me to make one, and one generous person bought me a gift. It was very kind of them, but I make a living and can buy things for myself so I got rid of my wishlist. It feels strange when strangers buy me things, and no judgement to those who enjoy it. But don’t throw yours around and pretend you don’t want it too!
And, if you mistreat the only people in your life for years and convince them that it’s their fault, because you are just so busy and important and introverted, that makes you a clinical narcissist and manipulative sociopath. You know that, right? Especially because you not only want people to feel bad because of it, and stick around, you EXPECT it.
I am so sick of all of your “friends”, who once were (and still are) my friends, coming to me years later and saying I was right. That you just don’t care. That you did the same shit over and over again, and are now playing the victim, because everyone leaves you. Yes they do, because you drive them away.
|—||Matty Healy (via perfect)|